"There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread." ~ Mother Teresa
Remaining diligent in your relationship - being conscious of showing genuine appreciation, respect and gratitude - takes effort. And that's the answer right there. We get complacent, we take our partner for granted, we take our relationships for granted, because the alternative takes effort!
This is so true, we all want to be appreciated, and it seems like when we are in a relationship we tend to overlook the small things that a man does for us.
The T.W. Jackson's book "The Magic Of Making Up" he has a chapter that teaches a woman how to train her man with appreciation. He says that men will do whatever you want them to do providing you show appreciation, and how men can't stand nagging.
One example he talks about is if a man tells you he is going to call at a certain time, and then he doesn't call until way later or the next day. He says the best way to handle that is to tell him (when he does call on time) that you really appreciate him being a man of his word, and that is one of the things that you love most about him.
When we show our gratitude, we are also showing our respect and admiration towards the person with whom we share our lives. Soon, we noticed that, just like that, our relationships have improved and there is more love and understand to go around.
Praising your partner makes you focus more on positive things rather than on trivial, forgettable misgivings. Every time you show appreciation, you lighten up your partner's world.
This is just one examples that T.W. Jackson gives, watch the video below for more free tips.
Remaining diligent in your relationship - being conscious of showing genuine appreciation, respect and gratitude - takes effort. And that's the answer right there. We get complacent, we take our partner for granted, we take our relationships for granted, because the alternative takes effort!
This is so true, we all want to be appreciated, and it seems like when we are in a relationship we tend to overlook the small things that a man does for us.
The T.W. Jackson's book "The Magic Of Making Up" he has a chapter that teaches a woman how to train her man with appreciation. He says that men will do whatever you want them to do providing you show appreciation, and how men can't stand nagging.
One example he talks about is if a man tells you he is going to call at a certain time, and then he doesn't call until way later or the next day. He says the best way to handle that is to tell him (when he does call on time) that you really appreciate him being a man of his word, and that is one of the things that you love most about him.
When we show our gratitude, we are also showing our respect and admiration towards the person with whom we share our lives. Soon, we noticed that, just like that, our relationships have improved and there is more love and understand to go around.
Praising your partner makes you focus more on positive things rather than on trivial, forgettable misgivings. Every time you show appreciation, you lighten up your partner's world.
This is just one examples that T.W. Jackson gives, watch the video below for more free tips.
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